Showing posts with label Communication. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Communication. Show all posts

Saturday, 30 July 2016

Common Sense is a super power ! Do You Have It ? Take the test and find out ?!

As we all know common sense is not so common ! Not all the people have common sense !It is so rare now a days that it should be considerate as a super power. now what is common sense actually ?!  WEll common sense defines a sound judgement in a practical matters based on a simple perception of a situation or a facts ! Experts have declared that many professionals have less common sense because they tend to think more complicatedly ! May be a school student can have more common sense than a highly professional person . Common sense is a thing that can be changed through your change of thinking . So it can be diminished or it can be improved ! okay so now how can we know that we have common sense ! Do you want to take a test ? Do you want to figure it out while you have common sense or not ? than you should take the test ! AS a curious innocent humble person i took the test and got 70 pnts ! yup! i need to work a bit to improve my common sense ! any way ! now lets just go into the test section ! here is goes :
Do You Have Common Sense
Dictions : 10 Questions will be asked and you have to answer each question in just 10 seconds ! choose A ,B , C or D and count your points ! ( Hey ! You! Yes, you Don't cheat :P ) 

QUESTION NO.1 :
What's more important ?
A. Life
B. Love
C. Money
D. Family .

Points :- A = 10 pnts , B = 0 pnts , C = 0 pnts , D = 0 pnts .

QUESTION NO.2 :
You are a chef and start crying because of ........
A : Knife 
B: Onions 
C: Smoke 
D: chilli pappers .

Points :- A = 0 pnts , B = 10 pnts , C = 0 pnts , D = 0 pnts .

QUESTION NO.3 :
Why do giraffes have such a long necks ? 
A : That's the way god made them .
B: To reach high leaves .
C : To defend themselves against predators .
D : Because their heads are far from their bodies.

Points :- A = 0 pnts , B = 0 pnts , C = 0 pnts , D = 10 pnts .

QUESTION NO. 4 :
You answer me all the time although  i never asked you any question. what am i ?
A : Parrot.
B: Phone
C: My own echo .
D : Imaginary friend .

Points :- A = 0 pnts , B = 10 pnts , C = 0 pnts , D = 0 pnts .

QUESTION NO.5 :
You wanted to download a game but it didn't work . How many times will you try again ?
A : I will give up .
B : To many to Count .
C : At least three more times .
D :  Just one more time to make sure .

Points :- A = 0 pnts , B = 0 pnts , C = 0 pnts , D = 10 pnts . 

QUESTION NO.6 : 
What you should do if you get caught cheating on a test and don't want to get on trouble ! 
A : Run out of class.
B : start crying 
C : Apologize for cheating 
D : Close my eyes and pray .

Points :- A = 0 pnts , B = 0 pnts , C = 10 pnts , D = 0 pnts .

QUESTION NO.7 :
You're on a top of a very high building and an apocalyptic earthquake starts ,you .......
A : Take king kong for a ride .
B : Use my parachute .
C : Go down in the elevator .
D : I believe I can fly .

Points :- A = 0 pnts , B = 10 pnts , C = 0 pnts , D = 0 pnts .

QUESTION NO.8 :
You're on the moon and you're spaceship is grabbed by aliens , what now ?
A : Nothing it's too late .
B : chase down the aliens , i want my ship back !
C : Call NASA from my lunar space .
D : Go back to earth using my magic wands .

Points ;- A = 0 pnts , B = 0 pnts , C = 10 pnts , D = 0 pnts .

QUESTION NO.9 :
What would you think if your name were Pufaloe Honkelkerilutger ?
A : What a lovely name !
B : What the hell did i ever do to deserve this .
C : I always knew my parents hate me 
D : At least i won't feel left out when i go to family reunions. 

Points :- A = 0 pnts , B = 0 Pnts , C = 0 pnts , D = 10 pnts .

QUESTION NO.10 :
A Cookie and A cake cost $20.50 in total. The cake costs $20 more than the cookie . How much does the cookie costs ?
A : Twenty five cents.
B : Fifty cents 
C: Seventy Five cents 
D : One dollar .

Points :- A = 10 pnts , B = 0 pnts , C = 0 pnts , D = 0 pnts .

RESULTS : 
0 to 40 Points : Nice attempts but you failed . You need to be more careful because you lack common sense . Don't walk out onto the road when a car is coming .
50 to 60 points : You didn't get a lot right, but don't feel offended now .Common sense is not for everyone ,those questions were meant to trick you .
70 to 80 points : Good Job you messed up sometimes but you have common sense .You did better than others even though there is still room for improvement.
90 to 100 points : You did very well , congrats ! You usually seem to do the right thing .and will most likely be prepared when something unexpected happens. 

Let us know what your points are in the comment section !Use your common sense and  Stay Happy Dear :) 


Saturday, 23 July 2016

Interesting Facts About Our Planet & Our LIfes .

Do you know, Continuius farting for six years and nine months would create energy equal to that of an atomic bomb. Wanna know more ?! here's some cool and interesting facts about world & life that we all need to know :
  1. A study by the oxford university suggests, whenyou fall in love you lose two close friends.
  2. Brad pitt's first job was dancing in a chicken suit to draw in customers at EI Pollo Loco.
  3. Smokers's have ten time more wrinkles than non smoker's 
  4. The faminine version of dude is dudine.
  5. The avarage customers spends 15 minutes in the supermarket before buying anything.
  6. Kurt kobin shot himself about one month after justin beiber was born.
  7. Both Hitler and Osama bin laden were announced dead on May 1.
  8. The first man to survive going over niargra falls later died by slipping on an orange peel.
  9. Man and women are generally more similar to mankeys than each other.
  10. The tounge is the smallest muscle in the body .
  11. A deep tan dameges blood vessels so much that it may take 4 to 15 months to recover.
  12. There are 84 people in the USA named LOL.
  13. When a person cries and the first drop of tears comes from the right eye. it's happiness . when it comes from the left eye, it's paim.
  14. It would take about 1000 years to watch every video currently on youtube.
  15. 28th june is the international caps lock dat .
  16. British people are drunk in 76% of their facebook photos.
  17.  The avarage cell phone contains more bacteria than a toilet seat.
  18. Adlof Hitler was chosen Time magazine's 1938 " Man Of The Year " .
  19. If you mouth the word 'colorful' to someone it looks like you are saying I Love You .
  20. You see your nose at all time , your brain just chooses to ignore it .
lets end this with a Riddle .
What's bigger than you ,but dosen't weight anything ? 
If you know the answer leave it in the comment section & let us know. Stay Happy :D

Friday, 22 July 2016

Facebook Facts : How much do you know

Facebook is blue because Mark Zucarbarg suffers from red-green colorblindness. And this blue facebook is one of the most active social networking site in woldwide. It hasn't been a very long time since facebook invented. It now has 1.65 billion monthly active users including you and i .We now check facebook everymorning like a daily routine . I don't thing anyone can imagine a life without facebook and for some people it would be a nightmare . here is some interesting facts about facebook that all facebook users should know :
  1. Facebook tracks which site you visit ,even after you've signed out. Mr. Stalker !
  2. People have been murdered for unfriending someone on facebook . Be careful guyss!
  3. 600,000 hacking attempts are made to facebook accounts everyday . hey ! Did you ever had your account hacked ?
  4. The meaning of poke has never been defiend . but who care's just poke anybody !
  5. The average adult facebook uders has 338 friends. 
  6. 83% of prostitues have facebook pages.
  7. Addind /4 to the end of facebook's URL will automatically direct you to Mark Zuckerberg's wall.
  8. For a fee , you can massage people and have it go directly to their inbox, skipping that pesky other folder that no one checks .
  9. 64% of facebook users visit the site on a daily basis.
  10. Someday there will be more dead people on facebook than living ones .
& After 100 years from now facebook will have 500 million accounts of dead people. Hope you have liked this post . Leave a comment and let us know your thoughts .Till than Stay Happy :)

Aim in life - what you desire ?!

Ding Dong ! Ding Dong !
Who's it ?
It's your next door neibour ,Mr. Spiderman !! haha just kidding ?! Can you tell me which question you have heard the most in your life ? No matter Where you go, you will hear that question . Every human does. It's "What's your name ? " yeah seriously your name  , and  the second most asked question that everyone goes through is "What is your aim in life ? " when we were young, our parents ,teachers ,relatives or anyone had asked us this question . And after growing up may be once in our life we ask this question to ourselves . Some gets the answer quiekly and some takes time to know what they truely desire . And few people like me who are always drowning in their fantasys never gets the serious answer. I remember when i was a kid , my aim in life used to change every other day . As one day if i wanted to become a Leader, than the other day i wished to become a singer . Sometimes a police officer or Sometimes a lawyer, etc , etc . That list will never end . Any way For Now i just wish to live a happy life . Living  a happy life is the aim in my life . Bitter truth is ,none of us is going to live forever ,we are all gonna die one day .  So no matter what you do you need to be happy right .If you want , Tell us what's your name and what you want to become in your life . Oh!! and last but not the least Stay Happy :)

Thursday, 21 July 2016

My Best Friend

I am actually an introvert person. It takes little bit of extra time for me to get along with someone i just met . But i like to meet new people and interact with them . Meeting a new person is like discovering a new world for me . Cause each of us has our own world inside our mind . Blogging is like interacting with the whole world in a same time . I feel like i can talk to everyone around in this world. And that thought makes me actually very happy . I am just a regular person who doesn't love to talk that much. It might sound weird but i love hugging trees . Every time i see a giant tree, i just grab that tree and stand there for a minute. Trees are our best friends . Yes! i took that sentence very seriously. As the world is getting warmer day by day we should plant more trees. Trees can not only save our environment but also our future generation . Planting trees will make our world more greener, more beautiful. Besides Whenever you are feeling low or upset you can sit under a tree and talk to it . yeah it might sounds crazy but it is effective . Remember what Sir Jagadish Chandra Bose said " Trees have life " 

Fight Depression and Restore Your Happiness


I have always wanted to write about Depression . I have seen many people suffering from it . A few days ago i heard a guy committed suicide because he was going through some serious issues in his relationships . He even threatened to commit suicide but nobody took him seriously . Yes ! later after his death everybody regretted for not paying attention to his threats. He was suffering from major depression . I don't want any life to be wasted like this. I don't want any of us to die like this . But it is happening all over in the world . About 300,500 million people in this world are affected by depression. of course it is a very serious disease . 15% of clinically depressed people die by suicide. Depression is a serious emotional disorder that significantly affects the development of problems in relationships with other people ,causes suffering to families and leads to loss of working ability . Everyone occasionally feels sad or depressed . It is perfectly normal to mourn because of adverse life events such as serious illness ,death in the family ,job loss or divorce. For most people these feelings of grief and sadness weak over time. However if the feelings of sadness lasts two weeks or longer ,and if a negative impact on daily activities , is likely to have something more serious than experience 'depression'. Now if you are like me and you don't want to die in depression and you don't want your loved ones to be dead because of it than you need to know the symptoms of major depression disorder .
Symptoms of major depression disorder :
  1. reduced self-esteem and self-evaluation
  2. impairment of concentration and attention.
  3. ideas of guilt and unworthiness (even in mild type of episode)
  4. black and pessimistic thoughts about the future
  5. ideas or actions directed towards self-injury or suicide.
  6. sleep disorders
  7. decrease in appetite.
In some cases, anxiety ,discomfort and motor agitation may be more pronounced than the depression and mood swings can be masked by other symptoms such as irritability,excessive alcohol consumption or hypochondriac preoccupation.
Major Depression disorder can even cause DID,No it is not Dance India Dance! It is Dissociative Personality Disorder which is also known as Multiple Personality Disorder. 
Major risk factors for Dissociative Personality Disorder (DID) :
  1. Previous depressive episodes if someone in the past had a depressive episodes in a greater risk that it will occur again . it is estimated that with half the people who have already had a depression episode in the same reappear . it also means that in a second half it will occur.
  2.  Age depression is an illness that usually occurs between the ages of 25 and 50 years. but adults over 65 have greater risk of developing depression .
  3. Gender- twice a greater likelihood of depression in women than in men .this applies to the adult population, whereas in children there is no difference in the incidence of depression among boys and girls. several theories for this .one is that women tend to acknowledge their emotional problems and seek medical attention while men tend to recognize their problems and will try to disguise the use of alcohol ,etc .
  4. Marital status - for people who are divorced ,his marriage is bad or whose partner is divorced greater the likelihood of depression. The rate of depression is lower in happily married couple .
  5. Heritage - if there is a family history of depression, the greater will be the likelihood of same with the other members. Also is there is a family history of bipolar depression cases ,the greater the likelihood of depression in a family member.
Depression is treatable. but the treatment should be individualize and depend on the specific causes and symptoms .
Treatment for major depressive disorder :
  1. Psychology inventions such as cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) aim to change the way of thinking ,behavior and beliefs that are related to depression.
  2. Interpersonal therapy helps people to understand their consequences interpersonal relationships and their emotions .
  3. Anti- depressant medications relieve depressed feeling ,returning to normal sleep patterns and appetite , and reduce anxiety . they gradually the balance of neurotransmitters in the brain ,taking one to four weeks as their positive effects. but these should be taken in consultation with doctor.
  4. Lifestyle changes such as exercise and reducing harmful alcohol and other drug use, helping people to recover from depression.
  5. For some stronger forms of depression certainly is an effective treatment electro convulsive therapy (ECT) ,or shock treatment as it is something mistakenly called. it can save your life for people at high risk of suicide or who are over weight because of his illness stopped eating or drinking and would subsequently died .
Depression can have a lot of different symptoms , a low mood, lost of interest in things you normally like ,poor concentration ,changes in appetite, feeling worthless or extremely guilty , sleeping either too much or too little , restlessness or slowness, loss of energy or current thoughts of suicide . If you have 5 of these symptoms than according to psychiatric guide line you qualify for a diagnosis of depression. Many depressed people never get help because they don't know that their physical symptoms might be caused by depression. If you think you may be depressed tell your doctor, The sooner you get treatment,the sooner you will feel better . Just remember that someone somewhere don't want you to die for some stupid reasons , someone wants you too live ,someone knows how beautiful and capable person you are , someone wishes all the happiness for you that you truly deserve. Have faith in Almighty ALLAH and stay happy :) 


Wednesday, 20 July 2016

Psychology : It's all in your mind !

Have you ever wondered why do you do what you want to do ? Why do you like or hate somebody ? Why you feel happy sometimes and why you get upset ? At times when you are really broke inside but why you keep on living, have you ever thought why? Well ! "the questions & their answers" all are inside your mind . It is all because of Psychology. 
A lot of people thinks psychology is a clinical thing . When they hear about psychology ,the 1st thing comes up to their mind is clinical or medical related psychology . People often mix psychology with psychiatrist. But it's a two different thing . Psychology is a  social-science interested is all behaviors and all mental processes . Unlike psychology, psychiatrist is a medical field interested in all abnormal behaviors and their treatment. In 1879, Wilhelm Wundlt opened the first psychology lab . It hasn't been a very long time since people have started knowing about psychological stuffs. The main reason why i feel the need to know more about psychology is, because  it tells me how my brain actually works . It answers all of my questions like why i feel like to do anything what i want to do . Besides I often wondered why people are thinking differently ? is it possible for people to read minds ? When i saw Twilight movie , i wanted to become a vampire like Edward Collin who could read peoples mind .Damn it, I envy him . Whatever ,it is the other reason about why i am interested in psychology . No , i am not saying if you read  psychology you can become a vampire one day , probably not ! but if you read or know about psychology than you can get a idea about what the other person is thinking from analyzing their body language or behavior . Well it is not the same as reading peoples mind but its little bit of close to it ! Here are some interesting facts about psychology that might be useful for you :

  1. In psychology, a believer is someone who accepts something before checking it out scientifically whereas the skeptic is someone who does not accept something until it has been verified scientifically . most psychologists are skeptics.
  2. Psychologists now study concepts earlier thought impossible to study such as morality,love and human belief systems.
  3. Psychologists,like all scientists,understand that there is no such thing as final proven knowledge in science.knowledge is always susceptible to change,some knowledge changes frequently,other knowledge changes minimally.
  4. Women are twice more talkative than men! it has been estimated that on average ,men speak 12,500 words and women speak about 25,500 words in a day .
  5. Men, on average think about sex every 7 seconds.
  6. The female brain is much more adept at reading subtle facial and verbal emotional expressions. some women say that only when men see actual tears they realize that something is wrong. this is why women have to cry four times more than man do, to signal distress.
  7. Not everybody who hears voices is mentally ill.
  8. Take any mention of suicide seriously.if someone you know is threatening to commit suicide ,get help right away.
  9. Terminal or late insomnia is early morning awakening. this type of insomnia is often a characteristic of clinical depression.
  10. The best thing you can do for someone with depression is to help him or her get treatment.
  11. The cause of autism is not known. autism lasts throughout a person's lifetime.there is no cure but treatment can help.
  12. The incidence of head injury in U.S is 300 per 100,000 per year,or 0.3% of the population,with a mortality of 25 per 100,000. 
Psychology actually is a science interested in human behavior ,mental processes such as learning , memory ,thinking and attention . It is the wonderful world inside your mind ,Try discovering it ;) 
  
Oh and whatever you do don't forget to Stay Happy !

Saturday, 16 July 2016

উদ্ভটসব চিন্তা ...

এই যুগের বেশি ভাগ তরুণ তরুণী হুমায়ূন আহামেদের ভক্ত । আমিও তাদের মধ্যে একজন ।
আর দুই দিন পর তার চতুর্থ তম মৃত্যুবার্ষিকী । ৪ বছর হয়ে গেছে অথচ এখনও প্রতি বই মেলায় আমি অপেক্ষা করি তার লিখা নতুন বইয়ের জানি এটা শুধু অপেক্ষা ,বইপোকা দের অপেক্ষা । মাঝে মাঝে আমার মাথায় আসে আচ্ছা এমন করলে কেমন হয় যদি পৃথিবীর বিখ্যাত সব মানুষদের মৃত্যুর পর তাদের মস্তিষ্ককে জীবিত রাখা হতো । আমার জানতে ইচ্ছা করে যেভাবে এক জন মানুষের হার্ট অন্য মানুষের মধ্যে স্থানান্তর করা যায় সেভাবে কি জ্ঞানী মানুষ গুলোর মৃত্যুর পর তাদের মস্তিষ্ক অন্য কোন জীবিত মানুষের মধ্যে স্থানন্তর করে সেটাকে কার্যকর করা যায় না । একজন মানুষের মৃত্যুর পর যদি তার হার্ট কে জীবিত রাখা যায় তাহলে তার ব্রেইন কে কি জীবিত রাখা যায় না । মানুষের হার্টে অবশ্য কোন মেমোরি থাকে না ,কিন্তু মস্তিষ্কে থাকে । তাহলে একজন মৃত মানুষের মস্তিষ্ক যদি কোন জীবিত মানুষের মধ্যে দিয়ে দেওয়া হয় তাহলে সেই জীবিত মানুষ টিকে মেরে মৃত মানুষটি কে জীবিত করা হবে । শুনতে খুবি নিষ্ঠুর মনে হয় । সেচ্ছায় যদি কেও চায় তাহলে কেমন হবে ।
আদো ও কি সম্ভব  এমন কিছু । এভাবে যদি আইনস্টাইন ,নিউটন , গালিলিও, রবীন্দ্রনাথ , হুমায়ূন আহামেদ সব বিখ্যাত মানুষ দের জীবিত রাখা যেত তাহলে খারাপ হতো না । কিন্তু এরকম করলে একদিন হয়তো এমন আসবে যে পৃথিবীর সব এক কালের মৃত মানুষরাই জীবিত থেকে যাবে । চিন্তা করতে ভায়ানক । আমার মাথায় এরকম উদ্ভট চিন্তা ভাবনা যেভাবে আসে সেভাবেই গেট আউট হয়ে যায় । আর যাই হোক হুমায়ূন আহামেদ স্যারের মত জ্ঞানীরা মরেও জীবিত হয়ে থাকে এবং থাকবে তাদের অগনিত ভক্তদের মাঝে । 

Friday, 15 July 2016

নিজেকে তুমি কতটুকু চিনো ?!

সবাই অসাধারণ হতে চায় ! সবাই চায় নিজেকে একটু আলাদা ভাবে প্রকাশ করতে । এই অসাধারণ হওয়ার চক্রান্তে মানুষ নিজেকে অন্যের সাথে তুলনা করে ! এবং সেটাই সব চেয়ে বড় ভুল ! মানুষ যখন নিজেকে অন্যের সাথে তুলনা করে তখন সে অসুখি হয়ে যায় । কথায় আছে নদীর এ পাড়ে দাড়িয়ে দেখি ওপারে যত সুখ যত আনন্দও। হ্যাঁ আমরা মানুষ এবং আমরা কখনো সন্তুষ্ট হই না ! একারনেই আজকালকার জুগে প্রায় অনেককেই বলতে শুনা যায় ,নাহলে ফেবুর স্ট্যাটাস দিতে দেখা যায় লিখে রেখেছেন একটাই বানী "ভালো লাগে না" । ভুলে যদি কেও জিজ্ঞেস করে ফেলে কেনও ভালো লাগে না ? তখন আদি- অনন্ত ডাইলগে জবাব 'জানি না' । তখন মন চায় তার কানের নিচে কষে একটা চড় লাগিয়ে শান্ত স্বরে জিজ্ঞেস করতে এখন কি ভালো লাগছে ?? আমার এক বান্ধবি আছে রুপ সচেতন নারী যাকে বলে উনি তাই ই ! আজ কাল তার মাথায় নিজের চেহারার খুত ধরা বিষয় টা ঢুঁকে গেছে ! তার ক্লাসের মেয়ে দের দেখে তার মনে হয় সে তাদের তুলনায় খুব অসুন্দর !! তার আফসস ইশ আল্লাহ কেনও যে তাকে আরেকটু সাদা , আরেকটি লম্বা , চুল গুলো আরেকটু সুন্দর দিলও না ! তার পর যখন কেও তাকে বললও তুমি সুন্দর তখন সে বিশ্বাস করলো যে সে সুন্দর ! তার আগে সে নিজেকে কুৎসিত ভাবতো ! কথাটা এরকম এসে দাড়ায় ঃ যে তুমি ভালো কিন্তু যতক্ষণ পর্যন্ত কেও একজন এসে তোমাকে বলবে না যে তুমি ভালো ততক্ষণ তুমি সেটা বিশ্বাস করবে না ! তোমার জীবনে তুমি অন্য কাওকে এতো গুরুত্ব দিচ্ছ কেনও ,সে অন্য কেও হয়তো তোমার মন্তব্যেরই অপেক্ষা করছে ।  আমিও একসময় নিজের চেয়ে বেশি অন্যদের মন্তব্যকে গুরুত্ব দিতাম ! প্রতিদিন মানুষিক টর্চার ! তখন আমি ডাইরি লিখতাম ! হঠাৎ একদিন ডাইরির পিছনের পাতাগুল উলটিয়ে দেখি একটাও ভালো দিনের কথা লিখা হয় নি ! ড্যাম ইট! সেই দিন আমি উপলদ্ধি করতে পেরেছিলাম অন্য কারো সমালোচনা না ,অন্য কারো কটু মন্তব্যও না আমার ভালো না থাকার কারন আমি নিজে ! সেদিন মনে হলও তারা তোহ আমাকে কয়েক দিন যাবত চিনে আর আমি নিজেকে জন্ম থেকে ! যখন তুমি নিজেকে গুরুত্ব দিতে শিখবে তখন সবাই তোমাকে গুরুত্ব দিবে ! তুমি কারো ডুব্লিকেট হওয়ার চেষ্টা করও না ! ইতিহাস সাক্ষী এই সমস্ত পৃথিবী ওরিজনালেরই ভক্ত । আর আজকালকার জুগে
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