Common Sense is a super power ! Do You Have It ? Take the test and find out ?!

As we all know common sense is not so common ! Not all the people have common sense !It is so rare now a days that it should be considerate as a super power. now what is common sense actually ?!  WEll common sense defines a sound judgement in a practical matters based on a simple perception of a situation or a facts ! Experts have declared that many professionals have less common sense because they tend to think more complicatedly ! May be a school student can have more common sense than a highly professional person . Common sense is a thing that can be changed through your change of thinking . So it can be diminished or it can be improved ! okay so now how can we know that we have common sense ! Do you want to take a test ? Do you want to figure it out while you have common sense or not ? than you should take the test ! AS a curious innocent humble person i took the test and got 70 pnts ! yup! i need to work a bit to improve my common sense ! any way ! now lets just go into the test section ! here is goes :

Do You Have Common Sense : 

Dictions : 10 Questions will be asked and you have to answer each question in just 10 seconds ! choose A ,B , C or D and count your points ! ( Hey ! You! Yes, you Don't cheat :P ) 

QUESTION NO.1 :

What's more important ?

A. Life

B. Love

C. Money

D. Family .

Points :- A = 10 pnts , B = 0 pnts , C = 0 pnts , D = 0 pnts .

QUESTION NO.2 :

You are a chef and start crying because of ........

A : Knife 

B: Onions 

C: Smoke 

D: chilli pappers .

Points :- A = 0 pnts , B = 10 pnts , C = 0 pnts , D = 0 pnts .

QUESTION NO.3 :

Why do giraffes have such a long necks ? 

A : That's the way god made them .

B: To reach high leaves .

C : To defend themselves against predators .

D : Because their heads are far from their bodies.

Points :- A = 0 pnts , B = 0 pnts , C = 0 pnts , D = 10 pnts .

QUESTION NO. 4 :

You answer me all the time although  i never asked you any question. what am i ?

A : Parrot.

B: Phone

C: My own echo .

D : Imaginary friend .

Points :- A = 0 pnts , B = 10 pnts , C = 0 pnts , D = 0 pnts .

QUESTION NO.5 :

You wanted to download a game but it didn't work . How many times will you try again ?

A : I will give up .

B : To many to Count .

C : At least three more times .

D :  Just one more time to make sure .

Points :- A = 0 pnts , B = 0 pnts , C = 0 pnts , D = 10 pnts . 

QUESTION NO.6 : 

What you should do if you get caught cheating on a test and don't want to get on trouble ! 

A : Run out of class.

B : start crying 

C : Apologize for cheating 

D : Close my eyes and pray .

Points :- A = 0 pnts , B = 0 pnts , C = 10 pnts , D = 0 pnts .

QUESTION NO.7 :

You're on a top of a very high building and an apocalyptic earthquake starts ,you .......

A : Take king kong for a ride .

B : Use my parachute .

C : Go down in the elevator .

D : I believe I can fly .

Points :- A = 0 pnts , B = 10 pnts , C = 0 pnts , D = 0 pnts .

QUESTION NO.8 :

You're on the moon and you're spaceship is grabbed by aliens , what now ?

A : Nothing it's too late .

B : chase down the aliens , i want my ship back !

C : Call NASA from my lunar space .

D : Go back to earth using my magic wands .

Points ;- A = 0 pnts , B = 0 pnts , C = 10 pnts , D = 0 pnts .

QUESTION NO.9 :

What would you think if your name were Pufaloe Honkelkerilutger ?

A : What a lovely name !

B : What the hell did i ever do to deserve this .

C : I always knew my parents hate me 

D : At least i won't feel left out when i go to family reunions. 

Points :- A = 0 pnts , B = 0 Pnts , C = 0 pnts , D = 10 pnts .

QUESTION NO.10 :

A Cookie and A cake cost $20.50 in total. The cake costs $20 more than the cookie . How much does the cookie costs ?

A : Twenty five cents.

B : Fifty cents 

C: Seventy Five cents 

D : One dollar .

Points :- A = 10 pnts , B = 0 pnts , C = 0 pnts , D = 0 pnts .

RESULTS : 

0 to 40 Points : Nice attempts but you failed . You need to be more careful because you lack common sense . Don't walk out onto the road when a car is coming .

50 to 60 points : You didn't get a lot right, but don't feel offended now .Common sense is not for everyone ,those questions were meant to trick you .

70 to 80 points : Good Job you messed up sometimes but you have common sense .You did better than others even though there is still room for improvement.

90 to 100 points : You did very well , congrats ! You usually seem to do the right thing .and will most likely be prepared when something unexpected happens. 

Let us know what your points are in the comment section !Use your common sense and  Stay Happy Dear :) 

Numerology meaning of Number 1 : Are you among of them ?

Number games begin with 1 and ends with 9. According to numerology people born on the 1st, 10th, 19th and 28th in any month are termed as number 1 people, ruled by the sun . 
Personality Reading for numerology number 1 people :
If your ruling number is 1 then you are a natural leader, full of drive and determination. you are however unnerved by responsibility. you are at your most productive when left alone. you are concerned about your appearance. you participate in sporting activities, often to regain your inner balance. you are romantic idealist though a bit immature . however you are farsighted and have the ability to influence others. you have the ability to transform microscope bits into a microscope whole. however your single-mindedness sometimes cause you to be insensitive to others. you thrive on change and like exploring new ideas, meeting new people ,discovering exorit places. you are witty and resourceful. you like the company of like minded people.you should have an even approach towards issues you feel strongly about. you must control your anger and learn to be more compassionate and understanding . you must look at the large picture and respect the other person's point of view. you are confused about your values and thus don't see the whole picture very often. your desire to help others sometimes comes in the way of your personal growth. you will have to arrive at a happy balance between your ideals and your personal growth. you are very motivating and amiable. opportunities come your way constantly but you don't optimise on these. don't expect your charm to steer you out of every tight spot . you are very emotional and should stay away from seeking cheap popularity. you are flexible and love challenges but tend to be impulsive . you are ingenious and witty. you have a multifaceted personality but you need to be more on the big picture. you penchant for moving goalposts can have serious consequences . you recognise the equilibrium between the rational and the irrational and can easily combine the two in your thought process.

Negative traits : 
 The negative attributes of the 1 expression are egotism and self centered approach to life . this in an aggressive number and if it is over emphasized it is very hard to live with. you do not have to be overly aggressive to fulfil your destiny. the 1 has a natural instinct to dominate to be the boss, adhering to the concept of being number one. Again you do not have to dominate or destroy in order to lead and manage.
In the end One is the number of those who do perfect Evil or perfect Good . 

ZODIAC LOVE COMPATIBILITY : KNOW WHICH SIGN IS MOST COMPATIBLE FOR YOU

Zodiac sign love compatibility : find out which sign is most compatible for you according to your zodiac .
ARIES(March 21 - April 19):
Perfect Match : Sagittarius  
Love: 5/5
Sex: 5/5
Marriage : 5/5
Overall: 5/5
This could be the ideal couple. Temperament sagittarius fits perfectly with the aries, and vice versa.Both are very active, spontaneous and like each others company. they share a tendency to extravagance and both love very comfortable life. it can be expressed in other words that the relationship will complement each other. their joyous nature is the vital point to get comprehensive success in this relationship. sex could be explosive and will be a reason to keep coming back to one another. Together they make a powerful combination. there is no place for confusion, hatred and unfaithful in this relationship. their relationship always gets success and lasts really long.
Other Good Compatibilities : Leo ,  Libra.
Worst Match : Pisces , Gemini, Virgo .
TAURUS(April 20 - May 20):
Perfect Match : Virgo
Love : 5/5
Sex: 5/5
Marriage : 5/5
Overall : 5/5
This could be love at first sight, one that we only see in a romentic movies .both partners are home creatures ,loyal to home and don't like adventures . besides that, both will have a same energy level , they even think same. sex will be great, just like they both want , very romantic . in all aspects of life they are the same. taurus will be guided by virgo's sharp brain. financially they are also same, they both like to save. this will be perfect relationship . both partners will feel happy as they can be .
Other Good Compatibilities : Scorpio , Capricorn .
Worst Match : Aries , Sagittarius, Gemini .
GEMINI(May 21 - June 20):
Perfect Match : Libra 
Love : 5/5
Sex: 5/5
Marriage : 5/5

Overall : 5/5
This is a very good combination. these two are signs agree well emotionally, mentally, intellectually, and in every other way that the more you can think of . the only problem is that both sign have difficulty in controlling the passion and emotions - if it is true that love spins the world , then this two characters alone could make it rotate a bit faster. libra's harmonic sweetness and gemini's variety filled personal demonstrations could make them good company for each other . Both partners usually share similar interests thoughts and feelings . libra will understand both sides of gemini's character , partner's indecisiveness and uncontrollable mood swings will not be a problem .The sex will be great ,they will never be bored and will never have the feeling that they want something completely different or something they don't have in this relationship . This is just the perfect combination , which could easily lead to a warm and happy marriage .
Other Good Compatibilities : Aquarius , Leo
Worst Match : Taurus , Cancer , Pisces
CANCER(June 21 - July 22): 
Perfect Match : Pisces
Love : 5/5
Sex: 4.5/5
Marriage : 5/5


Overall : 5/5
The stars say that this will be a very happy relationship. this relationship will be full of sensuality and sensibility . sooner or later these two are destined to experience a love relationship. How long it will last ,however , will be  another story , both are sensual, intuitive and artistic. pisces tend to swim in deep emotional water's and cancer loves the depth and creativity that pisces brings to the relationship . Cancer will likely to lead and be a strong point of this relationship. the pisces will greatly accept a role of a follower . the pair will work well both day and night as well and their relationship is really promising -just like a marriage that will arise after that.
Other Good Compatibilities : Capricorn , Scorpio
Worst Match : Gemini, Aries , Sagittarius 
LEO(July 23 - August 22):
Perfect Match : Sagittarius 
Love : 5/5
Sex: 4.5/5
Marriage : 5/5


Overall : 5/5
This is a very good combination , both like adventures and consider love as one of them . they are extravert's , passionate and follow their sexual preference without their partner being hurt . they make love often. Sagittarius simulates leo and is also devoted to him. Sagittarius has the greatest affection he is capable of towards leo . the relationship is wonderful and guaranties a happy marriage .
Other Good Compatibilities : Aries , Aquarius .
Worst Match : Gemini , Capricorn , Pisces .
VIRGO(August 23 - September 22):

Perfect Match : Taurus
Love : 5/5
Sex: 5/5
Marriage : 5/5


Overall : 5/5  
This could be love at first sight, one that we only see in a romentic movies .both partners are home creatures ,loyal to home and don't like adventures . besides that, both will have a same energy level , they even think same. sex will be great, just like they both want , very romantic . in all aspects of life they are the same. taurus will be guided by virgo's sharp brain. financially they are also same, they both like to save. this will be perfect relationship . both partners will feel happy as they can be .
Other Good Compatibilities : Pisces , Capricorn .
Worst Match :Aries , Libra , Aquarius .
LIBRA(September 23 - October 22):
Perfect Match : Gemini
Love : 5/5
Sex: 5/5
Marriage : 5/5


Overall : 5/5
This is a very good combination. these two are signs agree well emotionally, mentally, intellectually, and in every other way that the more you can think of . the only problem is that both sign have difficulty in controlling the passion and emotions - if it is true that love spins the world , then this two characters alone could make it rotate a bit faster. libra's harmonic sweetness and gemini's variety filled personal demonstrations could make them good company for each other . Both partners usually share similar interests thoughts and feelings . libra will understand both sides of gemini's character , partner's indecisiveness and uncontrollable mood swings will not be a problem .The sex will be great ,they will never be bored and will never have the feeling that they want something completely different or something they don't have in this relationship . This is just the perfect combination , which could easily lead to a warm and happy marriage .
Other Good Compatibilities : Aries , Aquarius .
Worst Match : Virgo , Scorpio .
SCORPIO(October 23 - November 21):
Perfect Match : Pisces
Love : 5/5
Sex: 5/5
Marriage : 5/5


Overall : 4.5/5
 Relationship between scorpio and pisces ,by all criteria , could be very successful. this could be love at first sight . there is a deep connection with a scorpion and pisces . they understand each other perfectly and can get lost in each other's dream's . This relationship is complete ,it has intense love that takes them all the way to heaven's plenty of action to play in the real world- it's a match . let's get one thing straight , there is a natural hierarchy in this relationship and scorpio is the leader . both are sensitive signs  but scorpio is tougher that pisces and can hide his emotions . Scorpio protects pisces and pisces feeds scorpio with love. Sex will also be great because they know exactly with his or her partners wants!
Other Good Compatibilities : Cancer , Virgo .
Worst Match : Aries , Gemini, Sagittarius .
SAGITTARIUS(November 22 - December 21):
Perfect Match : Aries
Love : 5/5
Sex: 5/5
Marriage : 5/5


Overall : 5/5 
This could be the ideal couple. Temperament sagittarius fits perfectly with the aries, and vice versa.Both are very active, spontaneous and like each others company. they share a tendency to extravagance and both love very comfortable life. it can be expressed in other words that the relationship will complement each other. their joyous nature is the vital point to get comprehensive success in this relationship. sex could be explosive and will be a reason to keep coming back to one another. Together they make a powerful combination. there is no place for confusion, hatred and unfaithful in this relationship. their relationship always gets success and lasts really long.
Other Good Compatibilities : Gemini , Leo
Worst Match : Taurus , Cancer , Virgo , Scorpio , Capricorn .
CAPRICORN(December 22 - January 19):
Perfect Match : Virgo
Love : 5/5
Sex: 4.5/5
Marriage : 5/5


Overall : 5/5
This combination could be great . virgo is organized ,precise and tidy , virgo is ideal partner for self disciplined capricorn . who likes to work and fight for his career . when it's about free time , they have a same ideas how to spend it . neither of them enjoys too much going out. they type of "spending the free time" is together. If they decide to go out and hang out with someone that will be as calm as the home. indeed there are just few of couples like this in this world - intelligent, calm and patient . this relationship is and will be great , fun , calm ,steady and long lasting .
Other Good Compatibilities : Taurus , Cancer , Capricorn .
Worst Match : Aries , Gemini , Leo , Sagittarius .
AQUARIUS(January 20 - February 18):

Perfect Match : Libra
Love : 5/5
Sex: 5/5
Marriage : 5/5


Overall : 5/5
This is great , excellent may be perfect combination . in this relationship each partner fulfils all the requirements of the other warm and sensual libra is like made to fit aquarius eroticism and playfulness . libra will find the loyal they have been looking for with aquarius .Aquarius will see adventure , excitement and relief from boredom with beautiful and charming libra. together these two can build a sexual relationship that will get hotter over time. These relationship will be long lasting and has a great potential to have a great marriage after that.
Other Good Compatibilities : Gemini , Pisces , Sagittarius .
Worst Match : Taurus ,Cancer , Virgo
PISCES(February 19 - March 20): 
Perfect Match : Cancer
Love : 5/5
Sex: 4.5/5
Marriage : 5/5


Overall : 5/5
The stars say that this will be a very happy relationship. this relationship will be full of sensuality and sensibility . sooner or later these two are destined to experience a love relationship. How long it will last ,however , will be  another story , both are sensual, intuitive and artistic. pisces tend to swim in deep emotional water's and cancer loves the depth and creativity that pisces brings to the relationship . Cancer will likely to lead and be a strong point of this relationship. the pisces will greatly accept a role of a follower . the pair will work well both day and night as well and their relationship is really promising -just like a marriage that will arise after that.
Other Good Compatibilities : Scorpio, Virgo , Pisces .
Worst Match : Aries, Gemini , Leo . 

Interesting Facts About Our Planet & Our LIfes .

Do you know, Continuius farting for six years and nine months would create energy equal to that of an atomic bomb. Wanna know more ?! here's some cool and interesting facts about world & life that we all need to know :

1. A study by the oxford university suggests, whenyou fall in love you lose two close friends.
2. Brad pitt's first job was dancing in a chicken suit to draw in customers at EI Pollo Loco.
3. Smokers's have ten time more wrinkles than non smoker's 
4. The faminine version of dude is dudine.
5. The avarage customers spends 15 minutes in the supermarket before buying anything.
6. Kurt kobin shot himself about one month after justin beiber was born.
7. Both Hitler and Osama bin laden were announced dead on May 1.
8. The first man to survive going over niargra falls later died by slipping on an orange peel.
9. Man and women are generally more similar to mankeys than each other.
10. The tounge is the smallest muscle in the body .
11. A deep tan dameges blood vessels so much that it may take 4 to 15 months to recover.
12. There are 84 people in the USA named LOL.
13. When a person cries and the first drop of tears comes from the right eye. it's happiness . when it comes from the left eye, it's paim.
14. It would take about 1000 years to watch every video currently on youtube.
15. 28th june is the international caps lock dat .
16. British people are drunk in 76% of their facebook photos.
17.  The avarage cell phone contains more bacteria than a toilet seat.
18. Adlof Hitler was chosen Time magazine's 1938 " Man Of The Year " .
19. If you mouth the word 'colorful' to someone it looks like you are saying I Love You .
20. You see your nose at all time , your brain just chooses to ignore it .

lets end this with a Riddle .
What's bigger than you ,but dosen't weight anything ? 
If you know the answer leave it in the comment section & let us know. Stay Happy :D

Facebook Facts : How much do you know

Facebook is blue because Mark Zucarbarg suffers from red-green colorblindness. And this blue facebook is one of the most active social networking site in woldwide. It hasn't been a very long time since facebook invented. It now has 1.65 billion monthly active users including you and i .We now check facebook everymorning like a daily routine . I don't thing anyone can imagine a life without facebook and for some people it would be a nightmare . here is some interesting facts about facebook that all facebook users should know :

1. Facebook tracks which site you visit ,even after you've signed out. Mr. Stalker !
2. People have been murdered for unfriending someone on facebook . Be careful guyss!
3. 600,000 hacking attempts are made to facebook accounts everyday . hey ! Did you ever had your account hacked ?
4. The meaning of poke has never been defiend . but who care's just poke anybody !
5. The average adult facebook uders has 338 friends. 
6. 83% of prostitues have facebook pages.
7. Addind /4 to the end of facebook's URL will automatically direct you to Mark Zuckerberg's wall.
8. For a fee , you can massage people and have it go directly to their inbox, skipping that pesky other folder that no one checks .
9. 64% of facebook users visit the site on a daily basis.
10. Someday there will be more dead people on facebook than living ones .

& After 100 years from now facebook will have 500 million accounts of dead people. Hope you have liked this post . Leave a comment and let us know your thoughts .Till than Stay Happy :)

Aim in life - what you desire ?!

Ding Dong ! Ding Dong !
Who's it ?
It's your next door neibour ,Mr. Spiderman !! haha just kidding ?! Can you tell me which question you have heard the most in your life ? No matter Where you go, you will hear that question . Every human does. It's "What's your name ? " yeah seriously your name  , and  the second most asked question that everyone goes through is "What is your aim in life ? " when we were young, our parents ,teachers ,relatives or anyone had asked us this question . And after growing up may be once in our life we ask this question to ourselves . Some gets the answer quiekly and some takes time to know what they truely desire . And few people like me who are always drowning in their fantasys never gets the serious answer. I remember when i was a kid , my aim in life used to change every other day . As one day if i wanted to become a Leader, than the other day i wished to become a singer . Sometimes a police officer or Sometimes a lawyer, etc , etc . That list will never end . Any way For Now i just wish to live a happy life . Living  a happy life is the aim in my life . Bitter truth is ,none of us is going to live forever ,we are all gonna die one day .  So no matter what you do you need to be happy right .If you want , Tell us what's your name and what you want to become in your life . Oh!! and last but not the least Stay Happy :)

My Best Friend

I am actually an introvert person. It takes little bit of extra time for me to get along with someone i just met . But i like to meet new people and interact with them . Meeting a new person is like discovering a new world for me . Cause each of us has our own world inside our mind . Blogging is like interacting with the whole world in a same time . I feel like i can talk to everyone around in this world. And that thought makes me actually very happy . I am just a regular person who doesn't love to talk that much. It might sound weird but i love hugging trees . Every time i see a giant tree, i just grab that tree and stand there for a minute. Trees are our best friends . Yes! i took that sentence very seriously. As the world is getting warmer day by day we should plant more trees. Trees can not only save our environment but also our future generation . Planting trees will make our world more greener, more beautiful. Besides Whenever you are feeling low or upset you can sit under a tree and talk to it . yeah it might sounds crazy but it is effective . Remember what Sir Jagadish Chandra Bose said " Trees have life " 

Fight Depression and Restore Your Happiness

I have always wanted to write about Depression . I have seen many people suffering from it . A few days ago i heard a guy committed suicide because he was going through some serious issues in his relationships . He even threatened to commit suicide but nobody took him seriously . Yes ! later after his death everybody regretted for not paying attention to his threats. He was suffering from major depression . I don't want any life to be wasted like this. I don't want any of us to die like this . But it is happening all over in the world . About 300,500 million people in this world are affected by depression. of course it is a very serious disease . 15% of clinically depressed people die by suicide. Depression is a serious emotional disorder that significantly affects the development of problems in relationships with other people ,causes suffering to families and leads to loss of working ability . Everyone occasionally feels sad or depressed . It is perfectly normal to mourn because of adverse life events such as serious illness ,death in the family ,job loss or divorce. For most people these feelings of grief and sadness weak over time. However if the feelings of sadness lasts two weeks or longer ,and if a negative impact on daily activities , is likely to have something more serious than experience 'depression'. Now if you are like me and you don't want to die in depression and you don't want your loved ones to be dead because of it than you need to know the symptoms of major depression disorder .

Symptoms of major depression disorder :

1. reduced self-esteem and self-evaluation
2. impairment of concentration and attention.
3. ideas of guilt and unworthiness (even in mild type of episode)
4. black and pessimistic thoughts about the future
5. ideas or actions directed towards self-injury or suicide.
6. sleep disorders
7. decrease in appetite.

In some cases, anxiety ,discomfort and motor agitation may be more pronounced than the depression and mood swings can be masked by other symptoms such as irritability,excessive alcohol consumption or hypochondriac preoccupation.

Major Depression disorder can even cause DID,No it is not Dance India Dance! It is Dissociative Personality Disorder which is also known as Multiple Personality Disorder. 

Major risk factors for Dissociative Personality Disorder (DID) :

1. Previous depressive episodes if someone in the past had a depressive episodes in a greater risk that it will occur again . it is estimated that with half the people who have already had a depression episode in the same reappear . it also means that in a second half it will occur.
2.  Age depression is an illness that usually occurs between the ages of 25 and 50 years. but adults over 65 have greater risk of developing depression .
3. Gender- twice a greater likelihood of depression in women than in men .this applies to the adult population, whereas in children there is no difference in the incidence of depression among boys and girls. several theories for this .one is that women tend to acknowledge their emotional problems and seek medical attention while men tend to recognize their problems and will try to disguise the use of alcohol ,etc .
4. Marital status - for people who are divorced ,his marriage is bad or whose partner is divorced greater the likelihood of depression. The rate of depression is lower in happily married couple .
5. Heritage - if there is a family history of depression, the greater will be the likelihood of same with the other members. Also is there is a family history of bipolar depression cases ,the greater the likelihood of depression in a family member.

Depression is treatable. but the treatment should be individualize and depend on the specific causes and symptoms .

Treatment for major depressive disorder :

1. Psychology inventions such as cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) aim to change the way of thinking ,behavior and beliefs that are related to depression.
2. Interpersonal therapy helps people to understand their consequences interpersonal relationships and their emotions .
3. Anti- depressant medications relieve depressed feeling ,returning to normal sleep patterns and appetite , and reduce anxiety . they gradually the balance of neurotransmitters in the brain ,taking one to four weeks as their positive effects. but these should be taken in consultation with doctor.
4. Lifestyle changes such as exercise and reducing harmful alcohol and other drug use, helping people to recover from depression.
5. For some stronger forms of depression certainly is an effective treatment electro convulsive therapy (ECT) ,or shock treatment as it is something mistakenly called. it can save your life for people at high risk of suicide or who are over weight because of his illness stopped eating or drinking and would subsequently died .

Depression can have a lot of different symptoms , a low mood, lost of interest in things you normally like ,poor concentration ,changes in appetite, feeling worthless or extremely guilty , sleeping either too much or too little , restlessness or slowness, loss of energy or current thoughts of suicide . If you have 5 of these symptoms than according to psychiatric guide line you qualify for a diagnosis of depression. Many depressed people never get help because they don't know that their physical symptoms might be caused by depression. If you think you may be depressed tell your doctor, The sooner you get treatment,the sooner you will feel better . Just remember that someone somewhere don't want you to die for some stupid reasons , someone wants you too live ,someone knows how beautiful and capable person you are , someone wishes all the happiness for you that you truly deserve. Have faith in Almighty ALLAH and stay happy :) 

Psychology : It's all in your mind !

Have you ever wondered why do you do what you want to do ? Why do you like or hate somebody ? Why you feel happy sometimes and why you get upset ? At times when you are really broke inside but why you keep on living, have you ever thought why? Well ! "the questions & their answers" all are inside your mind . It is all because of Psychology. 
A lot of people thinks psychology is a clinical thing . When they hear about psychology ,the 1st thing comes up to their mind is clinical or medical related psychology . People often mix psychology with psychiatrist. But it's a two different thing . Psychology is a  social-science interested is all behaviors and all mental processes . Unlike psychology, psychiatrist is a medical field interested in all abnormal behaviors and their treatment. In 1879, Wilhelm Wundlt opened the first psychology lab . It hasn't been a very long time since people have started knowing about psychological stuffs. The main reason why i feel the need to know more about psychology is, because  it tells me how my brain actually works . It answers all of my questions like why i feel like to do anything what i want to do . Besides I often wondered why people are thinking differently ? is it possible for people to read minds ? When i saw Twilight movie , i wanted to become a vampire like Edward Collin who could read peoples mind .Damn it, I envy him . Whatever ,it is the other reason about why i am interested in psychology . No , i am not saying if you read  psychology you can become a vampire one day , probably not ! but if you read or know about psychology than you can get a idea about what the other person is thinking from analyzing their body language or behavior . Well it is not the same as reading peoples mind but its little bit of close to it ! Here are some interesting facts about psychology that might be useful for you :

1. In psychology, a believer is someone who accepts something before checking it out scientifically whereas the skeptic is someone who does not accept something until it has been verified scientifically . most psychologists are skeptics.
2. Psychologists now study concepts earlier thought impossible to study such as morality,love and human belief systems.
3. Psychologists,like all scientists,understand that there is no such thing as final proven knowledge in science.knowledge is always susceptible to change,some knowledge changes frequently,other knowledge changes minimally.
4. Women are twice more talkative than men! it has been estimated that on average ,men speak 12,500 words and women speak about 25,500 words in a day .
5. Men, on average think about sex every 7 seconds.
6. The female brain is much more adept at reading subtle facial and verbal emotional expressions. some women say that only when men see actual tears they realize that something is wrong. this is why women have to cry four times more than man do, to signal distress.
7. Not everybody who hears voices is mentally ill.
8. Take any mention of suicide seriously.if someone you know is threatening to commit suicide ,get help right away.
9. Terminal or late insomnia is early morning awakening. this type of insomnia is often a characteristic of clinical depression.
10. The best thing you can do for someone with depression is to help him or her get treatment.
11. The cause of autism is not known. autism lasts throughout a person's lifetime.there is no cure but treatment can help.
12. The incidence of head injury in U.S is 300 per 100,000 per year,or 0.3% of the population,with a mortality of 25 per 100,000. 

Psychology actually is a science interested in human behavior ,mental processes such as learning , memory ,thinking and attention . It is the wonderful world inside your mind ,Try discovering it ;) 

  

Oh and whatever you do don't forget to Stay Happy !

Human Power Self-Confidence and Tips for how to Re-built it .

Two guys wanted to cross a mountain. One of them was afraid about his ability whether he can cross the mountain or not while the other one crossed it and achieved his goal . So which one is you ?

The word Confidence means "with faith" . Faith about what you think or you're doing is the right thing ! It is about having faith in you decisions . When you enter a room filled with people and you are wearing a T-shirt which you know everybody hates but you still don't care about what are they thinking, that is confidence . When you have failed many times but focusing on your goal, you keep trying, that is confidence. Self - confidence is about how much you believe in yourself . It is about who you are . Now Many of us have lack of self-confidence . When we succeed without a taste of failure we get a boost in confidence & in ego . but its temporary. Cause next time when we will face failure while doing something .we will eventually get effected by it & we will start questioning about our abilities ! There is no single person who haven't face failure in their live. yes! nobody is perfect but everybody has something passionate in themselves. Do what you are good at ! Do what you like to do . Find your abilities .If you don't know what your abilities are than may be it is the best chance to find it ! Join a cooking class ,or start going for singing lesson's . Start finding in what you are good at . There is a motivational story i want to share with all of you ,story that motivates me. There is a women in U.K . She once committed suicide . Her life was diagnosed with clinical depression. She was so poor that she could not afford to support herself and her daughter. She was jobless with a dependent child.One day while she was in a train trip ,the idea of a young boy attending the school of wizardry came fully formed into her mind .5 years later from that train journey she finished writing main script of her first book. The book was submitted to twelve publishing houses all of which rejected the main script . Well! She is none other than R . J Rowling, the creator of the harry potter series. She is now the twelfth richest women in U.k . On that hard time when she was getting rejected she could have thought her story was worthless ,she could have gave up ! but She stoop up every time with double faith that one day she will succeed ! and she did Succeed ! Don't be afraid of failure. Don't miss an opportunity because of the chances of failure ! Of course you don't wanna spend your life thinking "what if" all the time. take the chances , You have to believe in yourself, may be you will fail now ,but if you keep trying you will succeed one day. Failure makes you stronger and better . One thing you will notice in your life that when you are passionate about something and doing great in it . some people will hate you . And you know this as well as i do " haters gonna hate" ! It is not even worth your attention . Sometimes you have to break the rules to do what you want , It sounds bitter but you have to be disrespectful sometimes for being more confident . You can not say yes All the time. If you want to be a people pleasure than go ahead and do whatever others want you to do .Live a life like a puppet. But if you want to live life in your way than  stop giving a f* ck about what others think. Start being 100% of yourself. I know 'be Yourself"' is a very much used word now a days but what i mean about being yourself is being 100% of yourself  and don't ever apologize for it to anybody . This means whatever your hobbies are ,Whatever your passions are ,Whatever jokes that you find funny don't be afraid to express these things to anyone. If some people don't like you for who you are than they can go far and die anyway . You will find a whole lot of people who will love you for who you are . A wise man once said what you think about yourself is much more important than what people think about you. so Stand up and Walk with confidence. Rock it as you own it . 

Now here is some tips about how can you rebuilt your confidence :

1. Think positive : fill your mind with positive thinking. always see the bright side of a situation. take a deep breath and remind yourself that life is a short journey and you got to make a best of it . there is nothing wrong to remind yourself about how worthy and awesome you are . And you have to live a room to improve yourself . Try to improve yourself everyday . Change for the better. 
2. focus on the positive : let go of thoughts that doesn't make you strong. we all are made perfectly imperfect . Some likes to sing ,some wants to paint and some are good at getting good grades . accept your flaws and focus what you are good at . Well "you don not have to be great to start but you have to start to be great - zig zogler "
3. Have a buddy : share your insecurities to some one you love , Do as the disney song says "Let it go"  find someone you can trust , someone whom you can share your thoughts, your feelings ,your insecurities with ,it feels good to been it out ,just to get it out of your chest.
4.  Listen to people :  In fact look them in the eyes ,smile at them and listen intently to determine what you can learn from them. learning from people and knowing people allow you to emulate the confident attributes to others. 
5. Set goals :  its a great idea to keep a goal booked every time something enters your mind that you'ld like to achieve. remember no goal is to small to write it in your book .there is no greater joy in life that to realize a goal and nothing builds confidence faster. Small goals are as beneficial to your confidence  as realizing the big ones .
6. Be your own hero :  Write down all the attributes that you admire in others. humor, integrity,honesty,  whatever the case write it down. the more you write the attributes of others the more you'll begun to seethe type of person you want to become. Be prepared to enjoy the immense benefits of being your own hero - it feels great. 
7. Get into the flow : keep track of what motivates you. Stay near to those things .do what ever motivates you . keep that motivational level up and see the miracles happen almost as if a magic.
8. Be yourself & don't give a f*ck : being yourself is the best thing you can do for yourself . You can have interactions with everybody in your life and have each of them like you as an acquaintance or you can be polarizing be 100% of yourself and have some people dislike you and have some people absolutely loves you . The choices is yours. 
9. Get started : don't expect changes right away. have patience in knowing that it takes time to be that person you wish to be. there is a old saying that the joy is in the journey . display your confidence for everyone to see.

Remember life is full of beauty and in this life, happiness is a choice .It's up to you , Encourage others , share your wisdom with others. Teaching, mentoring and caring for others is the greatest gift you can give to others and yourself. Loving others will inspire you to love yourself .  Think as  Confidence is a skill that can be improved by practicing .Even if you're not feeling 100 percent confident today, Act as if you are. Sometimes the best way to deal with any fear or self doubt it to just confront it head on . fake is until you make it. STAY CONFIDENT, STAY HAPPY . 

Personality Test "believe it or not"

A few days ago i watched a video in You-tube . it was a video about horoscopes, personality test and how we believe what we read ! when we read something we believe it too easily but if someone says the same thing we won't believe them . on that video an expert told 5 people that she will ask them some Question which they need to answer.  According to their answers  and analyzing their behavior she will give each of them a sheet about their personality and how they matches with their horoscope . 5 of them saw their personality test results and they did agreed , whatever was written on those sheets matches them well . but the twist comes now . that expert gave 5 of them the exact same sheet ! it was shocking right ?! that expert explained we tend to find similarities with our self when we see these stuffs . Also these stuffs are designed in a way that every human can find a match ! they will feel like yes its me .so accurate  , so true and blah blah blah . well i used to believe on those thing but now when i see something like that i scroll down ! of course after reading what is has to say. can't help it but don't believe it either . Who cares its a fun thing to do right ?! Any way don't be deceived so easily .Stay healthy,Stay happy .

MMO ( Make Money Online ) : Those who loves to TALK.

If you love to talk and want to make money through online than this post is for you. here's some ways to make money online :- 

1. Blog for ad revenue - start a blog on a topic you love , build up a reader base and on your site make money from adds  .
2. Be a forum Moderator -  build a community ,keep out the spam and on the side moderating forums you can earn a little cash .
3. Write articles for websites - content is king on websites ,  for website owners keeping sites update with fresh, high quality content is a chore and often outsourced.
4. Be a guest author - some higher quality sites will pay between 50$ -400$ for a solid article on a topic their readers are interested in .  the rewards are much higher though the results are never assured with this method 
5. Get paid to post in forums - in an empty forum no one wants to post , that's why  webmaster need to hire forum posters to help kick start their forum and if you make it look active .you will get paid between $0.10-$0.25 per post to help get to a forum started .
6. Start a pod cast -  with audio and video you can start a pod cast. it is the same as with a blog, but through audio and video you can talk whatever you want and make some money from the adds . Its a quick and fun process .
7. Get paid for forums you already talk on -  You can run your own adds on threads you create in forums  ! Many forums offer a revenue share program . you can take advantage of it cause it is something that destroy debt offers.
8. Translate documents -Automated translation in no substitute for humans. if you speak a second language, translator documents and get paid.
9. Be a life coach or counselor -  behind the safety of the internet there are many people who would talk to a counselor for an advice . offer your advice at an hourly rate .

Tips For Scalp Psoriasis

Scalp psoriasis is a common skin problem. Psoriasis is characterized by an itchy feeling along with pain in the scalp. It's caused by the skin regenerating in a period of days rather than the typical month. The skin damages too fast and become irritated, causing shedding skin that looks like dandruff.

The best way to treat psoriasis is by exposing the skin to the sun, but this becomes complicated when the psoriasis is found on the scalp, as it is very difficult that the sun reaches this area of the body. Therefore, this condition needs to be treated in other ways. The shampoo you use in this case is very important, and choosing one without chemicals and as natural as possible will make a great difference. Here you'll find different recipes to make natural homemade treatments for scalp psoriasis.

Aloe vera mask

This mask will help you get rid of the redness and itchiness on your scalp, plus it will leave your hair and scalp smelling really good. You'll need:

1 or 2 tablespoons of aloe vera

1 drop of lavender, peppermint or tea tree oil

Instructions:

Mix the aloe vera with the essential oil

Massage the mixture into your scalp gently

Let the treatment soak into your scalp for 30 minutes

Shampoo your hair with gentle aloe vera shampoo or some other alternative to shampoo

Baking soda shampoo

Baking soda, with its great antibacterial properties, is a great natural treatment for scalp psoriasis. Only applying baking soda won't clean your hair, but you can apply this treatment and then use a mild or natural shampoo to leave your hair completely clean. To use baking soda to treat scalp psoriasis:

Mix 1 tablespoon of baking soda with 1 cup of water

Mix well until the baking soda is disolved and apply to the scalp for a few minutes and rinse

Wash your hair with a natural shampoo

Olive & peanut oil treatment

Using peanut oil on your scalp before applying shampoo is great to treat scalp psoriasis. Oils contain fatty acids that are anti-inflammatory, which relieve the pain and itchiness. To prepare an olive & peanut oil treatment you need:

1/4 cup olive oil

1/4 cup peanut oil

Instructions:

Combine the two ingredients and apply on your scalp

Cover with a plastic shower cap or plastic bag

Leave it sit for 30 minutes before applying shampoo

Saffron tea to rinse your hair

Herbal teas that contain chamomile or yellow saffron are perfect for promoting skin health. However, you can also prepare an infusion and apply it directly on your scalp. You'll need:

2 teaspoons of yellow saffron

2 liters of hot water

Instructions:

Put the yellow saffron in the water and steep for 20 minutes

When cooled, strain and place in a spray bottle

Use the mix as final rinse after shampooing

Use it as many times throughout the day as you want (for instance, if the itching gets very uncomfortable)

Treating your scalp

The most important thing when treating scalp psoriasis is being very gentle with your scalp. You should never scratch it, even if it's itching, or remove the flakes, as this could create small wounds that could get infected. Treating the scalp gently will allow it to heal faster.

Consult with your dermatologist if the methods listed above don't work and your psoriasis gets worse.

QUICK TIP'S ABOUT AGING

Aging is a thing that Nobody actually wants but it comes to everyone . Who wants to be called an AUNTY when she is just 33 years old .SO if our body doesn't support us we need to take natural help right ?!  i know everybody is super busy so i'll make it short . here's some tips about AGING : 

* EGG WHITE ,MALAI & LEMON JUICE -

•  In a bowl take one tea spoon of  white part of  egg
•  now include one tea spoon of lemon juice in it
• and then add half tea spoon of malai 
• finally mix it well and apply this all over your face
• after 15 minutes wash your face with cold water 
• Dear, Apply this face pack every alternate day & you will see good results . 

* CARROT , POTATO, TURMERIC & BAKING SODA - 

• Boil one small carrot and potato then chop it into small pieces 
• Mash them to form a smooth paste
• add a pinch of turmeric and baking soda
• mix it well , then apply this paste all over your face .

special note : please drink 8 to 9 glass of water each day . Be healty .Stay young & beautiful .

Tip's For Skin Tan & Acne

Global Warming is threatening our world from last few years . 2015 was the warmest year based on the NQAA dataset with 1.62 F (0.90 C) . It was so warm that my eyes got damaged by it and doctor gave me spectacles to wear. Any way the sun is getting hotter and we need to protect our skin from this burning heat and pollution .If you stay 20 minutes outside on a sunny day these days you will get skin tan. IT IS AWFULL RIGHT?! besides the heat is so burning that it can harm your skin and give a acne . So here's some tips for skin tan and Acne .hope it will help you all to protect your skin .

Tips for skin tan :

1. ROSE WATER ,CUCUMBER JUICE & LEMON JUICE : Use a mixture of rose water ,cucumber juice and a dash of lemon juice once a day .lemon juice will help to reduce a tan while rose water and cucumber works as cooling agents .
2. SOUR CURDS : sour cards has great bleaching properties. use it on tanned surfaces for about 15-20 minutes.wash off. Do regularly to get rid of tan completely .

Tips for acne :

1. lemon juice applied regularly on acne reduces it effectively 
2. one of the best medicine for acne is garlic. garlic rubbed on the acne more than once in a day clears the rigid of the acne problem.
3. Coriander juice to which a pinch of turmeric is added is a very effective home remedy for acne.
4. apply a fenugreek leaves paste on the acne.left it for over night and then wash away with warm water in the morning. this pack will remove acne and blackheads.
5. Apply cucumber to the face in a grated form and left it for twenty minutes. after 20 minutes wash it off ! It is a good home remedy for acne.
6. A face pack using a little portion of apple cider ,fullers earth and vinegar ! Apply this paste on the face ,its a very effective remedy for acne.

আজও ভালোবাসি

নিতুর সাথে আমার পরিচয় ফেসবুকে। তখন আমি নবম শ্রেনির ছাত্র । আমার এক বন্ধু আমাকে নিতুর সম্পর্কে বলে । মেয়েটার কথা শুনেই একটু আগ্রহ জন্ম নেয় তার সম্পর্কে জানার । বন্ধুর কাছ থেকে আইডি লিঙ্কটা নিয়ে তাকে অ্যাড রিকুয়েস্ট পাঠালাম । ৭ মাস পর তার কথা ভুলেই গিয়েছিলাম এমন সময় ফেবুতে একটা নোটিফিকেশন আসে। নাফিসা বুশরা নিতু এক্সেপ্টেড ইয়োর ফ্রেন্ডরিকুয়েস্ট । ৭ মাস আগে বন্ধুর কথা শুনে মনে হয়েছিল মেয়ে টা খুব ভাব নেই ,আজকে সিউর হয়ে গেলাম ।কিছুটা খারাপ মেজাজ নিয়েই তাকে নক দেই
আমি ঃ আসস্লামুয়ালিকুম
নিতু ঃ ওয়ালিকুম আসসালাম ।
আমি ঃ কেমন আছেন ?
নিতু ঃ ভালই ! আপনি ?
আমি ঃ আলহামদুলিল্লাহ ! আচ্ছা একটা প্রশ্ন জিজ্ঞেস করি ?
নিতু ঃ আমি যদি বলি না ,তাহলে কি জিজ্ঞেস করবেন না ?
আমি ঃ জী
নিতু ঃ ঠিক আছে করেন কি প্রশ্ন ?
আমি ঃ আপনি কিসে পড়েন ?
নিতু ঃ আমি মিরপুর বালিকা উচ্চ বিদ্যালয়ের ক্লাস ১০ এ পড়ি ।
আমি ঃ আমিও ক্লাস ১০ এ পড়ি কিন্তু অন্য স্কুলে ! যেহেতু আমরা সমবয়সী তাহলে আপনি আপনি করে কেন বলছি ?! তুমি করে বলতে পারি না ?
নিতু ঃ হুম ! লজিক ঠিক আছে ! ওকে তুমি করেই বলব !
এভাবে আমাদের কথা শুরু হয় ! সে প্রতিদিন শুধু মাত্র ১ ঘণ্টার জন্য ফেবুতে আসতও ,আমি বেচারা সারাদিন ওই ১ ঘণ্টার অপেক্ষায় থাকতাম ! তার সাথে কথা বলতে বলতে আমি তাকে বুঝতে চেষ্টা করি ! একটা মেয়েকে বুঝতে চেষ্টা করলে হয়তো তুমি তার প্রেমে পরে যাবে নাহলে পাগল হয়ে যাবে ,আমার ক্ষত্রে দুটোই ঘটেছিলো সেটা অবশ্য আমি তখন বুঝি নি ! তার সম্পর্কে আরও ভালোভাবে জানার জন্য তার বান্ধবি দের সাথে ও  আমার খাতির হয়ে যায় ! আমার বন্ধুরা, তার বান্ধবিরা সবাই জানতো আমি তাকে পছন্দ করি শুধু মাত্র সে জানতো নাহ ! আমাদের বন্ধুত্তের প্রায় ১ বছর শেষ , এস এস সি পরীক্ষাও শেষ এর মাঝে ! আমি তাকে যত বারই বলতাম আমার সাথে দেখা করার জন্য সে কোন বারি রাজি হতো না । এভাবে বলতে বলতে অনেক দিন পর সে দেখা করতে রাজি হয় আর আমাদের দেখাও হয় ! সে দিন সাদা আর সবুজ ড্রেসে তাকে মায়াবতীর মত লাগছিল ! এই মেয়েটা জেনো পৃথিবীর সব মায়া কে আঁকড়ে রেখেছে
আমি ঃ এতদিন পর
নিতু ঃ তাই নাকি ? কত দিন পর ?
আমি ঃ ১ বছর ৯ মাস ১৩ দিন ৫৮ ঘণ্টা ৩৬ সেকেন্ড
নিতু ঃ ১৩ দিন না বোকা ১৬ দিন , কি হিসাব কি শুধু তুমি ই পার আমি পারি না
আমি ঃ না পার না ১৩ দিন ই হবে আর তুমি সে হিসাব রাখ নি আমি জানি
নিতু ঃ হুম রাখিনি ! তোমাকে চেক করছিলাম সত্যিই কি হিসাব করে বলছিলে নাকি উরে এসে জুড়ে কিছু একটা মেরে দিচ্ছিলে ! দেখছি সত্যি সত্যি হিসাব করে রেখেছ
আমি ঃ হ্যাঁ তুমি তো আমাকে বিশ্বাস করও না তাই তো এতো বার বলার পর দেখা করতে এলে
নিতু ঃ না বিশ্বাস করি একটু একটু ! এভাবে আমি কখন কারো সাথে দেখা করতে আসি নি ! তাই সাহস যোগাড় করছিলাম আর কি !
আমি ঃ আমাকে কি বাঘ মনে করেছিলে নাকি ভাল্লুক
নিতু ঃ উহু একটা ও না , গরিলা হবে ।।
বলেই খিল খিল করে হেসে দিলও সে, তার হাসির শব্দ এ প্রথম শুনলাম ! এতো সুন্দর ভাবে সেই হাসতে পারে যার মনটা অনেক পবিত্র ! সে দিন ই তার মোবাইল নাম্বারটা সে আমাকে দিয়েছিল ! এর আগে আমাদের শুধু ফেবু তে কথা হতো ! তার সম্পর্কে আমার আগের ধারনা সব ভুল হতে থাকে সে ভাবিস্ট কেও না , সে আসলে নরম মনের একটা বাচ্চা মেয়ে যে কাওকে দেখাতে চায় না সে ভেতরে কতটা একা ! কারো কষ্ট দেখলে খুব কষ্ট পেতো কিন্তু প্রকাশ করত না ! নিজের জন্ম দিন পালন করত রাস্তার অনাথ শিশুদের সাথে ! তাদের কে বাসায় নিয়ে নিজে রান্না করে খাওয়াত ! তার একটা দুর্বলতা সে কান্না করত না ! পরিস্থিতি যেমনি হোক আমি তাকে কখনো কাদতে দেখি নি ! বাবা মায়ের বাদ্ধগত ভদ্র ,সহজ সরল একটা মেয়ে ! মনে যা থাকে তাই ই বলে আর  মাঝে মাঝে তিতা করলার চেয়েও তিতা কথা বলে কিন্তু সত্যটাই বলে ! এস এস সির রেজাল্টের পর সে আর আমি একই কলেজে ভর্তি হই সে কমার্সে আমি সাইন্সে ! কমবাইন্ড কলেজ আর তার উপর নিতু অনেক সুন্দরি ! ছেলে গুলো  ওর পাশে যেভাবে ভন ভন করতে থাকে আমি টেনশনে পরে যাই !তার উপর নিতু কেমন জেনো আমাকে ইগনোর করতে শুরু করে ,ফোন দিলে ফোন ধরতো না,  দেখা হলে ঠিক মত কথা বলতো না! খুব কষ্টে এক দিন সাহস করে তাকে বলই ফেলি ...
 এই নিতু শুনো
নিতু ঃ কি বল ?
আমি ঃ আমি তোমাকে ভালো বাসি নিতু !
নিতু ঃ মজা করছ না তা ?
আমি ঃ উহু ! একদমই না !
নিতু ঃ কি দেখে ভালবাশ আমায় ?
আমি ঃ জানি না ! শুধু জানি ভালবাসি !
নিতু ঃ আমি এসব ভালবাসার মধ্যে নাই ! এখন আমি প্রেম করব না তাছাড়া আমার আব্বু আমাকে ডাক্তার ছেলে ছাড়া বিয়ে দিবে না ! শুধু শুধু তোমার সাথে প্রেম করে আরেক জন কে বিয়ে করে কি লাভ !
আমি ঃ তুমি একটু চিন্তা করে জানাও ,আমি অপেক্ষা করতে রাজি
নিতু ঃ না চিন্তা করার কিছু নেই ,আমরা ফ্রেন্ড আসি আর থাকব
আমি ; না নিতু ,ফ্রেন্ড হয়ে থাকা আমার পক্ষে সম্ভব না
নিতু ঃ ঠিক আছে তুমি যেটা চাও ...
আমি ঃ ভালো থেকো নিতু !
আমি নিতু ! আজকে আমার খুব খারাপ লাগছে ! যা চেয়েছিলাম তাই ই হয়েছে তাও খারাপ লাগছে কেনও জানি না ! আজকের পর থেকে হাসানএর সাথে আর কথা হবে না ,সে চলে গেছে আমার জীবন থেকে ! আমি অনেক আগে থেকে ই যানতাম সে আমাকে পছন্দ করে ! ছেলেটার সাথে যতই খারাপ ব্যবহার করি না কেনও সে সব সহ্য করে যেত ! আর আমাকে হাসানোর আপ্রাণ চেষ্টা করত সবসময় ! যখন আমি বুঝতে পারি আমি তার উপর দুর্বল হয়ে যাচ্ছি তখনই ওর কাছ থেকে নিজেকে দূরে নিয়ে আশার চেষ্টা করি ! ওর সাথে কথা বলা ধিরে ধিরে কমিয়ে দেই ! আমার মনে হয় এটা শুধু ওর ভালো লাগা ভালবাসা না ! কয় দিনের মধ্যে আমার কাছ থেকে দূরে গেলে নিজে নিজেই বুঝতে পারবে ! তাছার আমি প্রেমে পরতে চাই না ,এইসব আমার ঝামেলা মনে হয় ! আমি দোয়া করি হাসান যেখানে থাকুক ভালো থাকুক ! আর অনেক ভালো একটা মেয়ে ওর জীবনে আসুক ...
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নিতুর সাথে আমার শেষ দেখা হওয়ার পর আমি ওকে ভুলার অনেক চেষ্টা করি , প্রথম কয়েক মাস পর আমি অন্য একটা মেয়ের সাথে রিলেশনশীপেও যাই ! কিন্তু টিকলো না , কয়েক দিনের মধ্যেই ভেঙ্গে গেল এর পর এভাবে আমার আর কয়েকটা রিলেশন হয় সব মেয়ের মধ্যে আমি নিতুকে খুজতাম ! এই মেয়ের মত আর কাওকে পাই নি ! কিভাবে পাবও নিতু তোহ শুধু একটাই ! আর সেই নিতু বদমেজাজি মেয়েটা কেই আমি এতো ভালোবাসি, যে আমার ভালবাসাকে কোন পাত্তাই দিলও না একটু ভাবতে তো পারত এত তাড়া কার ছিলও ! আমি মনে মনে চিন্তা করে ফেলেছিলাম বিয়ে আমি নিতুকেই করব আর ডাক্তার হয়েই করব ! সব কিছু বাদ দিয়ে উঠে পরে লাগি আমি ডাক্তার হওয়ার জন্য ,সারাদিন রাত শুধু বই নিয়েই থাকি আমি ২বছর !অনেক কষ্টে ঢাকা মেডিক্যালে চান্স পাওয়ার কয়েক মাস পর আমি নিতুর সাথে যোগাযোগ করার চেষ্টা করি! তখন সে ঢাকা বিশ্ববিদ্যালয়য়ে অর্থনীতিতে ১ম বর্ষে পড়ছে ! একটা সুবিধা ছিলও যে তার আর আমার একটা কমন ফ্রেন্ড ছিলও ! সে ফ্রেন্ডের কাছ থেকে নিতুর নাম্বারটা নেই আর এটাও জেনে নেই এই ৪ বছরে ওর কোন সম্পর্ক হয়েছে কিনা ,অবশ্য কোন বয়ফ্রেন্ড থাকলেও যায় আসেতো না , তাকে বিদায় করে দিতাম কিন্তু না লক্ষ্যি মেয়ে টা কোন সম্পর্কে জড়ায়নি আগে যেমন ছিলও তেমনি আছে ! নিতুকে ফোন দিয়ে দেখা করতে বলি ! এত দিন পর ও আমাকে মনে রেখেছে জেনে খুশি হয়ে গিয়েছিলাম ! পরের দিন টি এস সি তে আমাদের দেখা হয় ! নিতু আগের চেয়ে অনেক সুন্দর হয়ে গেছে মনে মনে বললাম এত সুন্দর কেনও হয়ে গেল মেয়েটা ! অনেক সুন্দরি হওয়া যদি অপরাধ হতো তাহলে নিতু সেই অপরাধের ১ নাম্বার অপরাধী হতো ! এসেই মেয়েটা ধমকের সুরে বলেছিল কি ব্যাপার হা করে তাকিয়ে আছো কেনও ? কিছু বল ? আমি হাতের লাল গোলাপ টা কে বারিয়ে দিয়ে হাঁটুর গেড়ে বসে মাথা নিছু করে তাকে বলেছিলাম আজ ও ভালোবাসি নিতু ! প্রতিটা ক্ষণ ,প্রতিটা মুহূর্ত শুধু তোমাকেই ভালোবাসি !
নিতু ঃ উঠো মানুষজন দেখছে ! কি হলও উঠো নাহলে একটা ঘুশি দিয়ে উরিয়ে দিব এখনই !
আমি ঃ উঠে দাড়িয়ে বললাম তোমাকে ইম্ব্যেরেস করার জন্য সরি
নিতু ঃ  তোমার প্রপসালে আমি রাজি হতে পারি কিন্তু আমার একটা শর্ত আছে
আমি ঃ যে শর্ত দিবে সেটাতেই রাজি, কিন্তু কি শর্ত
নিতু ঃ সম্পর্কের মাঝে কখনো যদি তোমার মনে হয় যে তুমি আমাকে আর আগের মত ভালোবাস না , বোর হয়ে গেছ কিন্তু আমি তোমার প্রতি খুব সিরিয়াস হয়ে যাচ্ছি তখন অন্য একটা মেয়ের সাথে প্রেম করে আমাকে ছেঁকা দিয়ও ! আমার খুব শখ জীবনে সিরিয়াস রকমের একটা ছেঁকা খাব ! কি রাজি ?
আমি ঃ { মনে মনে ভাব্লাম এই মেয়ে আগের চেয়ে ১০ গুন বেশি পাগল হয়ে গেছে কিন্তু তার পাগলামি কেও আমি ভালোবাসি ) বাধ্য ছেলের মত মাথা নেড়ে বললাম হ্যাঁ পাগলি ! রাজি !

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 নিতু এখন আমার বুকের উপর মাথা রেখে ঘুমিয়ে আছে ! মুখের উপর চলে আশা চুল গুলো তাকে বিরক্ত করছে আমি আঙ্গুল দিয়ে সেগুল সরিয়ে দিচ্ছি ! আমাদের বিয়ে হয়েছে ২ বছর প্রায় ,এখন সে আমার বউ ! পাগলি ,মিষ্টি , দুষ্ট বউ !